I have recently started a new chapter of my life. I felt I have gained some wisdom from all the new experiences in my life and wanted to share. First, I have realized that moving out of your parents’ house is extremely hard especially when you have wonderful parents. It doesn’t matter what age you decide to move out, the feelings remain the same. But, it will make you stronger, trust me. It will bring a new sense of accomplishment to yourself and you will feel capable of anything. I swear it gives like superhero vibes. But, seriously when you are ready and financially stable (very important) then take the leap! You will feel extremely terrified and that’s natural. The best thing my parents every told me, “you can always come home”. It made me feel like regardless of the circumstance, I always had a place to call home.
Most importantly, I have realized that I’m a people pleaser. That means that I care more about others happiness then my own. It is a great characteristic to have, don’t get me wrong. But, when you try to make decisions for yourself... it becomes a severe hazard. I have always wanted to see others happy, because it makes me happy. The characteristic is problematic when I was taking the plunge and go out on my own. I kept thinking how this will affect everyone around me. I never stopped to think how it made me feel. Then, naturally I scoured the Internet for answers to my questions. Then I came across something interesting, an article that suggested I think about the moments that make me feel happy. The article suggested I write down every moment that I feel happiness. It has made a huge difference in how I sort out my feelings. I am beginning to focus more on myself then others for the first time in my life.
That’s all for now,
xoxo meg
